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7.4.25
Happy 4th! I'm off. I woke up super early, around 4 am. Probably because I snuck into bed at around 9:15 pm. I feel really rested today. I didn't even set my alarm. My body woke me up. As I laid there, I started writing poetry in mind and wished I had a way to capture it. I was thinking of how partners can make you feel physically tiny, and everything is relative.
What I mean by this, is you can have a partner that is much larger than you, and because they are so big you feel tiny. I kind of like that, not going to lie. My husband makes me feel tiny.
Flip the coin. Does a woman make her male partner feel big by being tiny or slightly smaller in stature? Maybe. I never thought of that before. Does it really matter? I think to some it does.
Maybe some people like the opposite. Some men want an amazon woman. Super tall, thick, broad shoulders, like they are climbing a mountain and they love that!
Bottom line is you like what you like. I like to be made to feel little. That's me. I want them to be stronger than me. That is what my poetry in my mind was about. I was spinning ideas and phrases that were something like...
Smother me with your big body and make me feel little
Sweat, musk, and muscle
Let me feel your strength in my struggle
Arms pinned
I'm not going anywhere
Something like that...
And Good Morning LOL. Nothing like a little sexy poetry to get your morning started LOL.
I also think about women and our infatuations with shape wear. People get all bent about wearing corsets but then they will put on their Spanx. I don't have an issue about wearing shapewear or control top panty hose or corsets. I love wearing what makes me feel beautiful. Any type of clothing that accents my curves, I am all for it. I love the butt enhancing work out leggings not only for the butt enhancement. They also are control top panty hose essentially, making that hourglass figure pop.
I am not like Kate Moss or Twiggy. I am not super slender or waifish. I want to wear anything that will accent my assets. This ass isn't going anywhere soon, and I don't want it too. Remember the song "I like big butts" by Sir Mix-a-Lot or "Fat-bottomed Girls" by Queen? How about "Hips Don't Lie" by Shakira? What about "All About That Bass" by Meghan Trainor? Songs that celebrate the junk in the trunk, curves, anything hourglass shaped.
Let's talk about shapewear. What is it?
Any type of garment that can apply compression, enhancing your body's shape and smoothing out rippled areas. Usually this would be a body suit under a tight dress, accentuating your curves. Just depends on the type of clothing you will be wearing. As a teenager I used to wear control top panties under my semi tight legging just for that smooth look. Flatter tummy, smoothed thighs, rounded ass. I liked the feeling of them.
Do you want to know how much the world loves shapewear? Let's just talk about the company Spanx LLC. Sara Blakely, the founder of Spanx. This company started in 2000, pulling in $4million dollars. Today the projected revenue...drum roll please. $480 million dollars. Any you are telling me we as a society don't want to be confined by corsets? Whatever LOL clearly women like compression fashion. (Google search)
So, let's talk about her company and how it started. It's an amazing story really. She too loved wearing control top pantyhose. She was a saleswoman going door to door and hated the look of her control top panty hose in her open toed shoes. She ended up cutting the lower part of the control top panty hose but that created a probably of the hose riding up. So, she developed a better version of her cut off control top panty hose. Spanx was turned down at several hosiery factories at first. But she pivoted and pitched her Spanx product to Neiman Marcus. How did she convince them? Wearing her white pants with and without Spanx. She then proceeded to bring her product to the other big department stores like Bloomingdale's, Saks, and Bergdorf Goodman (Wikipedia).
We all like to look good, to feel good. Confident in our attractiveness. Are we going to pretend we don't want to look attractive to the person that we chose to be sexy with and also attractive to others. Whether it is a garment made of spandex, or latex, or the compression is made by lacing up the back; it matters not. I am very pro-corsets or any garment that accentuates my curves.
Hell, I even support wearing a really good bra. Even Marilyn Monroe wore padded bras in some of her gowns. If the dress would look better with a nice push up bra, wear it! Say yes to cleavage LOL. Victoria Secret has gotten a lot of my money over the years. This company in 2024 pulled in $6,230 billion! Just proving that we all enjoy a little sassy, sexy, spice in our lives. People pretend to not be into it, but they are...secretly.
I just think about how obsessed I was in my early years on being super thin. Over exercising. Under eating. I was around 20-25 pounds lighter back then.
I am much happier these days. I love my body and what it can do. I love playing around with dresses, corsets, and butt enhancing leggings. I love embracing a little extra fluff as they say. I think it is just better to find that sweet spot; the balance between the right amount of food and the right amount of exercise.
That is all I have. May you have a relaxing day off. Be safe. Stay sexy. Make a body positive play list and think of me LOL.
Love, Alimoon
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